A Bloody Good Question

So me and a friend were talking about the past, about how he ruined his 5 year relationship, about how he broke up with his darling, about how he don't think they can see past the pain and sorrow even if they somehow got back together. And at last he stopped talking. 

'Well.. Make happier memories to cover the sad. That actually works.'

'Yayaa...I know..trying.'

'You're also doing the same thing right?